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After 7 years of marriage and 13 years together, I’ve learned that faith, communication, and laughter are the anchors of a lasting Christian marriage.
Zach and I were very privileged to celebrate our 7th year of marriage recently. In total, we’ve been together 14 years. If I’m being honest, that is nearly half of my life!
I thank God all the time for Zach. God really knew what he was doing when He paired us together.
Zach is everything I’m not - patient, gentle, slow to anger, unconditionally kind and loving, a pretty good listener, and has such a servant mindset. He can also be pretty funny with little effort!
If you know me, you know I tend to lean toward stubborn, impatient, emotional, slower to trust, outspoken, and…tend to be in my own little world. Don’t get me started on how often I’m the only one laughing at my own jokes!
(By the way, I’m not saying this to put myself down, I know my strengths and weaknesses and I’m confident God made me this way for a greater purpose- I also know these traits are positive in their own ways!)
We compliment each other well with our differences, but we do think a lot alike and have a very similar sense of humor.
In the last thirteen years, we have learned a lot about maintaining our relationship. No relationship is perfect, so please don’t let me fool you about ours! And obviously, I won’t claim that what works for us will work for you, but if I’m ever asked in another bridal shower to write down advice for the soon-to-be married couple, at least I’ll have something to reference!
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